We interrupt our previously scheduled programming…

August 11th, 2010

There’s no doubt about it.

This has been one of the most emotionally taxing months that I can remember…

and I’m not referring to a “day one of one month”…

to “day one of the next” scenario.

In fact…

it seems like all too recently…

I shared with you that I was emotionally spent…

and wanted to be candid and up front.

That the last thing that I ever want to convey…

is that I have somehow…

“arrived”…

Circumstantially or otherwise.

I have shared with you more than once…

that the “Hero Hubby” and I…

have worked with youth of all ages…

for over 20 years.

It has been both a privilege and an honor.

We have helped to develop some pretty amazing ones…


that will most definitely lead, move and shake their generation.

In fact…

the punks stellar young people pictured here…

were given a national honor…

thanks to the mentoring of their coach/mom!

She’s also pictured.

Last evening…

near Bishop California…

there was a tragic accident involving three vehicles.

One of the vehicles…

one of three vans full of athletes from California Baptist University…

suffered a fatality…

and serious injuries.

One of “our kids” was in that van.

She is in serious condition in a hospital in Mammoth…

to which she and others were air lifted.

She is currently stable.

I opened a discussion about tension Monday.

There have been some great contributions.

I hope that there will be more.

One of the tensions that wasn’t even on my radar…

but is currently in the forefront…

is this…

(and if you have young children…

listen up anyway…

because you WILL “get there!”)

That’s a promise.

Not a possibility.

There is the tension between young adults and parents.

It’s a healthy tension…

but often a delicate one.

You raise your kids…

Leadership Education model especially included…

to be independent…

self-sufficient…

responsible adults.

And yet…

what about the tension of naivete’…

on their part…

versus the “life experience”…

and exposure to “impossibilities”…

on yours?

Without the experience that you have…

they can’t be as mature and objective…

as they often need to be.

Because “society at large”…

sees and acknowledges them as adults.

Life is…

for the most part…

all that is delightful and good in their world.

They’re on a perpetual upswing…

for now.

You…

on the other hand…

have experienced the bittersweet balance…

that exists between what-if-I-don’t-get-that-position…

(or whatever you’d use to fill in the blank)…

and can’t provide what is needed?

Tension between idealism and reality…

and knowing how to leverage

the relationship that you worked so tirelessly…

to cultivate with your “child-that-is-now-an-adult”…

for the ultimate good and benefit of all…

is a significant tension, for sure!

Their infallibility would normally be included somewhere in there as well.

But not today.

Or even this week.

Possibly not this month, either.

Because “our girl”, Alicia…

is lying in a hospital…

fighting a lot of things.

Both physically and mentally.

Won’t you please remember her and her family…

in your thoughts and prayers?

And Alicia…

for all the times that you went at me or Mr. Helms…

with full gusto…

and your toes-on-the-line…

the times you laugh hysterically…

even when you should have chosen silence…

the joy…

the now seemingly benign “defiance”…

that is often misplaced by zealous..

well-meaning..

up-and-coming young leaders…

could you use all of that robust energy…

and get well?

And while your at it…

know with all your heart, mind and soul…

that there is a God that loves you…

cares for you…

and miraculously spared you?

Thanks.

Oh…

and one last thing…

I don’t think I’ve told you since January…

how much I love you…

and how proud I am of you!

Now get busy, okay?

Moms, Dads, Mentors, Friends…

Brothers, Sisters…

and everyone in between…

a hug and a soft answer…

go a long way in easing negative tension…

while validating and enforcing the necessity of its presence.

By all means…

go practice!

A special thanks to my brother, Tim Driver…

who is not a biological parent…

but yet a parent-figure, friend, and extraordinary mentor to many…

including his big sister.

Thanks for leveraging tension so beautifully this afternoon…

like you always do…

and for giving me the inspiration for this blog post…

when I was grieving too deeply to do it alone.

I love you bunches.

Until Friday,
TeriSig


Tension, part 1

August 9th, 2010

Feel yourself getting uptight simply looking at the title?

It’s not exactly a word that conjures up positive connotations!

This past Thursday and Friday…

I had the privilege of attending an incredible Global Leadership Summit.

It was telecast from Chicago.

The speaker line-up was simply amazing!

Jim Collins, Terri Kelly, Tony  Dungy, Daniel H. Pink, Blake Mycoskie…

and THE Jack Welch…

to name a few.

That’s right.

I’ve attended a lot of conferences in my day…

and this one is hands down…

THE best investment of my time and money EVER.

Another speaker was a gentleman of less renown in the secular world…

by the name of Andy Stanley.

Andy is the senior pastor of a church in Alpharetta, Georgia…

that has a weekly attendance of  more than 28,000 people.

He just turned 51.

The talk that he shared was not without huge epiphanies…

impact…

effectiveness.

It’s title?

The Upside of Tension.

This week…

all week…

we are going to talk about several of the things that he shared.

They are thought provoking…

conversation stimulating…

paradigm shifting…

principles.

And they couldn’t apply more…

to leaders…

and a Leadership Education environment.

I have thought so very much…

about what he had to say…

as it applies to my life as a wife…

mother…

mentor…

friend…

community leader.

Tension is defined in Webster’s 1828 Dictionary as…

1. The act of stretching or straining;…2. The state of being stretched or strained to stiffness; or the state of being bent or strained…3. Distension.

The premise is this…

Every “organization” has problems that shouldn’t be solved…

and tensions that shouldn’t be resolved.

Why?

Because in the resolve…

you simply create new tensions!

Real progress depends not on the resolution of those tensions…

but on the successful management of those tensions.

Here are an example of two tensions…

that we all  need to manage regularly.

Schooling…

which according to the 1828 is…

instructing; teaching; reproving.

And Educating…

which is…

instructing; enlightening the understanding, and forming the manners.

He went on to explain…

that “problems to solve”…

are often mistaken for the tensions in life…

that need to be leveraged and managed!

Talk about thought provoking!

This week…

it is my hope…

that we will engage in interesting..

thought provoking dialogue together…

about all of the ways that we could make progress…

as leaders and mentors…

if we will learn to distinguish between problems and tension!

So…

put on your thinking cap…

even start taking the time to write down examples of “tensions”…

and we’ll meet up on Wednesday to begin discussing!

Don’t hesitate to share these in the comments section!

It will most likely broaden our options!

See you Wednesday!

And no…

I didn’t forget!

This week’s giveaway is also courtesy of Christy Gandara…

at OneCreativeBug.

It is a set of two plexi-glass-like boards.

One is a “To Do” list…

the other is a “What’s Cookin’?” week day schedule- at- a-glance.

They’re convenient…

in that you use a wipe off Vis-a-Vis marker on each of them…

and start fresh both daily and weekly respectively.

They are decorated, of course…

and I will post a picture on Wednesday!

My brain has been going non-stop since Thursday…

and admittedly…

it is a refreshing change from my mouth…

is it not?!

I’m tired…

and I’ll see you Wednesday!

XO,
TeriSig

Interesting Perspective….Your Thoughts?

August 6th, 2010

I said that I would announce the winner of the wall vinyl that was generously donated by Christy Gandara today.  I love this gift!  It says, ” That noise you hear is the sound of Freedom.”

Our winner was chosen by Random.org and was Gale de la Rosa!  Congratulations, Gale!  If, when you put this lovely saying up, it’s missing one morning off of your wall…it was me!  Send me an e-mail with your address in it, and I’ll get this off to you!

This article is long, but worth the read.  And be sure to comment…

as I will be announcing another giveaway on Monday!

Monday is the early bird deadline for registration for the Sept. 10-11 Face to Face in Temecula.

Contact evlundquist@gmail.com to register. TeriSig


The Best High School Valedictorian Speech Written by Erica Goldson
The 2010 Graduating Class of Coxsackie-Athens High School.

Comment: The following speech was delivered by top of the class student Erica Goldson during the graduation ceremony at Coxsackie-Athens High School on June 25, 2010
Here I Stand
There is a story of a young, but earnest Zen student who approached his teacher, and asked the Master, “If I work very hard and diligently, how long will it take for me to find Zen? The Master thought about this, then replied, “Ten years . .” ?The student then said, “But what if I work very, very hard and really apply myself to learn fast — How long then?” Replied the Master, “Well, twenty years.” “But, if I really, really work at it, how long then?” asked the student. “Thirty years,” replied the Master. “But, I do not understand,” said the disappointed student. “At each time that I say I will work harder, you say it will take me longer. Why do you say that?” ?Replied the Master, “When you have one eye on the goal, you only have one eye on the path.”
This is the dilemma I’ve faced within the American education system. We are so focused on a goal, whether it be passing a test, or graduating as first in the class. However, in this way, we do not really learn. We do whatever it takes to achieve our original objective.
Some of you may be thinking, “Well, if you pass a test, or become valedictorian, didn’t you learn something? Well, yes, you learned something, but not all that you could have. Perhaps, you only learned how to memorize names, places, and dates to later on forget in order to clear your mind for the next test. School is not all that it can be. Right now, it is a place for most people to determine that their goal is to get out as soon as possible.
I am now accomplishing that goal. I am graduating. I should look at this as a positive experience, especially being at the top of my class. However, in retrospect, I cannot say that I am any more intelligent than my peers. I can attest that I am only the best at doing what I am told and working the system. Yet, here I stand, and I am supposed to be proud that I have completed this period of indoctrination. I will leave in the fall to go on to the next phase expected of me, in order to receive a paper document that certifies that I am capable of work. But I contest that I am a human being, a thinker, an adventurer – not a worker. A worker is someone who is trapped within repetition – a slave of the system set up before him. But now, I have successfully shown that I was the best slave. I did what I was told to the extreme. While others sat in class and doodled to later become great artists, I sat in class to take notes and become a great test-taker. While others would come to class without their homework done because they were reading about an interest of theirs, I never missed an assignment. While others were creating music and writing lyrics, I decided to do extra credit, even though I never needed it. So, I wonder, why did I even want this position? Sure, I earned it, but what will come of it? When I leave educational institutionalism, will I be successful or forever lost? I have no clue about what I want to do with my life; I have no interests because I saw every subject of study as work, and I excelled at every subject just for the purpose of excelling, not learning. And quite frankly, now I’m scared.
John Taylor Gatto, a retired school teacher and activist critical of compulsory schooling, asserts, “We could encourage the best qualities of youthfulness – curiosity, adventure, resilience, the capacity for surprising insight simply by being more flexible about time, texts, and tests, by introducing kids into truly competent adults, and by giving each student what autonomy he or she needs in order to take a risk every now and then. But we don’t do that.” Between these cinderblock walls, we are all expected to be the same. We are trained to ace every standardized test, and those who deviate and see light through a different lens are worthless to the scheme of public education, and therefore viewed with contempt.
H. L. Mencken wrote in The American Mercury for April 1924 that the aim of public education is not “to fill the young of the species with knowledge and awaken their intelligence. … Nothing could be further from the truth. The aim … is simply to reduce as many individuals as possible to the same safe level, to breed and train a standardized citizenry, to put down dissent and originality. That is its aim in the United States.”
Comment: The full passage reads: “The aim of public education is not to spread enlightenment at all; it is simply to reduce as many individuals as possible to the same safe level, to breed and train a standardized citizenry, to down dissent and originality. That is its aim in the United States, whatever pretensions of politicians, pedagogues other such mountebanks, and that is its aim everywhere else.”
To illustrate this idea, doesn’t it perturb you to learn about the idea of “critical thinking.” Is there really such a thing as “uncritically thinking?” To think is to process information in order to form an opinion. But if we are not critical when processing this information, are we really thinking? Or are we mindlessly accepting other opinions as truth?
This was happening to me, and if it wasn’t for the rare occurrence of an avant-garde tenth grade English teacher, Donna Bryan, who allowed me to open my mind and ask questions before accepting textbook doctrine, I would have been doomed. I am now enlightened, but my mind still feels disabled. I must retrain myself and constantly remember how insane this ostensibly sane place really is.
And now here I am in a world guided by fear, a world suppressing the uniqueness that lies inside each of us, a world where we can either acquiesce to the inhuman nonsense of corporatism and materialism or insist on change. We are not enlivened by an educational system that clandestinely sets us up for jobs that could be automated, for work that need not be done, for enslavement without fervency for meaningful achievement. We have no choices in life when money is our motivational force. Our motivational force ought to be passion, but this is lost from the moment we step into a system that trains us, rather than inspires us.
We are more than robotic bookshelves, conditioned to blurt out facts we were taught in school. We are all very special, every human on this planet is so special, so aren’t we all deserving of something better, of using our minds for innovation, rather than memorization, for creativity, rather than futile activity, for rumination rather than stagnation? We are not here to get a degree, to then get a job, so we can consume industry-approved placation after placation. There is more, and more still.
The saddest part is that the majority of students don’t have the opportunity to reflect as I did. The majority of students are put through the same brainwashing techniques in order to create a complacent labor force working in the interests of large corporations and secretive government, and worst of all, they are completely unaware of it. I will never be able to turn back these 18 years. I can’t run away to another country with an education system meant to enlighten rather than condition. This part of my life is over, and I want to make sure that no other child will have his or her potential suppressed by powers meant to exploit and control. We are human beings. We are thinkers, dreamers, explorers, artists, writers, engineers. We are anything we want to be – but only if we have an educational system that supports us rather than holds us down. A tree can grow, but only if its roots are given a healthy foundation.
For those of you out there that must continue to sit in desks and yield to the authoritarian ideologies of instructors, do not be disheartened. You still have the opportunity to stand up, ask questions, be critical, andcreate your own perspective. Demand a setting that will provide you with intellectual capabilities that allow you to expand your mind instead of directing it. Demand that you be interested in class. Demand that the excuse, “You have to learn this for the test” is not good enough for you. Education is an excellent tool, if used properly, but focus more on learning rather than getting good grades.
For those of you that work within the system that I am condemning, I do not mean to insult; I intend to motivate. You have the power to change the incompetencies of this system. I know that you did not become a teacher or administrator to see your students bored. You cannot accept the authority of the governing bodies that tell you what to teach, how to teach it, and that you will be punished if you do not comply. Our potential is at stake.
For those of you that are now leaving this establishment, I say, do not forget what went on in these classrooms. Do not abandon those that come after you. We are the new future and we are not going to let tradition stand. We will break down the walls of corruption to let a garden of knowledge grow throughout America. Once educated properly, we will have the power to do anything, and best of all, we will only use that power for good, for we will be cultivated and wise. We will not accept anything at face value. We will ask questions, and we will demand truth.
So, here I stand. I am not standing here as valedictorian by myself. I was molded by my environment, by all of my peers who are sitting here watching me. I couldn’t have accomplished this without all of you. It was all of you who truly made me the person I am today. It was all of you who were my competition, yet my backbone. In that way, we are all valedictorians.
I am now supposed to say farewell to this institution, those who maintain it, and those who stand with me and behind me, but I hope this farewell is more of a “see you later” when we are all working together to rear a pedagogic movement. But first, let’s go get those pieces of paper that tell us that we’re smart enough to do so!

Much Ado about Clutter!

August 4th, 2010

“Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing, is like shoveling the sidewalk before it stops snowing.” ~ Phyllis Diller, American comedienne and actress, born 1917.

If this post doesn’t prompt you to throw your two cents in…

as a mom first and educator second

I’m quite confident that no topic will.

How do you deal with the dynamic that comes from any one of the following…

living in a house with a possibly-larger-than-2.5-child-family…

being “together” 24/7, as opposed to those that are “gone from the family dynamic”…

at least 8 hours a day?

Inquiring minds really do want to know…

what your hints…

tips…

solutions…

are to this particular situation.

Because this is the ideal that we see on a regular basis…

and this is what many people feel as if they’re really battling!

Or worse yet…

really are.

I’m not here to promote one particular methodology or system…

but at the same time…

recognize that moms are brilliant!

What works for you…

may not for me…

but could very well be a lifeline for someone else!

Here are some things that I’ve learned over the years.

Most of society…

doesn’t live my life.

Simply meaning…

I am not “the norm”.

Sons #1-#5 find this to be slightly understated.

And as long as I have my children home 24/7…

regardless of how many of them there are…

I never will be “normal.”

This is something you simply must own.

Mom speak?…

Those “Scrubbing Bubbles” (TM) bathroom toilet gels…

that suggest on the side of the box…

that they “need replacing once a week”…

last 1.5 – 2 days max in a house full of home-educated boys…

where the toilet…

replaces one of those cascading…

perpetual waterfall relaxation fountains…

because of constant flushing!

Rejoice.

And plan accordingly when purchasing.

Perhaps also plan accordingly as well…

when the temptation arises to compare yourself to others.

Martha Stewart?…

has beautiful ideas…

lovely resources…

and expectations that most women need a pole vaulting background…

to rise to any measure of success in achieving!

She has a staff.

Very few of which are over the age of 30!

They work 24/7…

to make her look good!

Do you see children on her programs?!

Do you see Martha personally doing all of the things…

that she suggests you undertake?

Enough said.

Avoid placing yourself…

in social situations…

where the expectation level consistently runs this high.

They don’t compliment and encourage your life goals and choices.

You can do anything for 15 minutes.

And if that 15 minutes is focused, committed time…

it honestly does add up to quite a bit of accomplishment!

Adding an element of FUN to the often mundane…

does make tasks more palatable.

Everyone needs certain life skill sets to be able to live on their own.

Are you incorporating these skills into daily life…

as opportunities in which your kids will learn and grow?

How do you deal with the daily clutter?

Living 24/7 together?

These questions apply to every phase of Leadership Education…

and every walk of life!

At times they can “make or break” a dynamic learning environment…

and atmosphere that is conducive to inspiration.

So settle in…

get yourself a nice cold drink…

and let ‘er rip!

The “web lines” are open!

What works for you…

your family…

your life?

We’d love to know!

TeriSig






Happy Apps!

August 2nd, 2010

Three years ago for Mother’s Day…

I opened this.

I was stunned.

I nearly threw up.

And neither of these emotions was due to excitement…

of this I can assure you!

I am one of THE most technology challenged…

individuals walking…

sitting…

however you choose to look at it.

It’s almost mind boggling to those around me.

My kids frequently call my issue…

a “homeschooling moment.”

This is not meant as a compliment.

To make matters worse…

all 6 of the “men” in my life…

were looking on with a mix…

of joy and envy…

as I opened the package.

Yes, it’s true…

they had all decided…

that I should be the first iPhone owner…

in our family.

I seriously doubt…

that any of them have experienced…

a more paramount moment…

of insanity since.

With all of that being said…

My iPhone is indispensable.

I simply don’t know what I ever did without it.

It’s near-ability to vacuum and dust while whistling…

at least from my personal point of view…

is a never ceasing source of incredulous wonder on my part!

Perhaps I need to experience a more well-rounded life.

Or at least do something in “corporate America”…

for a reality check before I leave this earth.

I don’t know which side of this suggested equation…

would suffer more!

Since that fateful thoughtful Mother’s Day…

each of my three oldest sons…

and their father…

have entered the iPhone cult culture.

There are vast differences…

as to our level of allegiance…

to said cult culture.

For instance…

upgrade…

is something they do whenever a new model appears.

Me?

Why should I move “up”…

when I haven’t even fully utilized what I already own?

And apps?

Well…

at first…

I thought they were all saying “abs”…

and I couldn’t for the life of me…

figure out what was going on!

And since we all sync our phones…

on the same “port” or “dock”…

or whatever that dohickey…

thingamabob deal is…

I get everyone else’s “apps”…

that apparently…

they won’t make it through the day without!

For example…

there’s the “Bubblewrap App”.

Oh yes!…

when you’re “stressed”…

you simply begin to “pop” bubbles…

in the full screen of wrap!

Son #3 was quite proud…

to introduce me to this “seemingly necessary” life skill…

when we were running behind for an appointment!

Granted…

he felt better.

Especially…

since he managed to set a timer…

and watch me attempt to “beat the clock”!

Oliver and Rachel DeMille have stated…

more than once in recent months…

that social media…

will most definitely be a part…

of the Great Conversation for our children.

I am quite certain that this is true.

Imagine my thrill…

and yes, I am being serious now…

when I discovered a couple of “apps”…

that aid both young…

and not-so-young moms…

in using moments…

that “B. iP”…

(Before iPhone)

could’ve very easily been wasted.

I mean…

how many times are you “stuck”…

sitting…

waiting…

somewhere…

with literally nothing to do?

Oh yes indeed!…

that doctor’s “recheck”…

that should’ve been 10 minutes…

but ends up being one of those…

“he’s-had-an-emergency-and-we-know-you-understand…

one-hour-later” moments!

Or what about…

a “this-will-take-no-more-than-15-minutes…

once-we-have-the-part”…

at the mechanic moment?

And there you sit.

Because I love you…

and attempt to keep it real…

and somewhat cutting edge…

over here…

might I draw your attention to the following apps?

#1…

Flash Tables by frogameleon, ltd.

This app has great exercises!

You can set a timer…

or not…

depending on the proficiency of the child.

They choose the correct answer…

can do “all one number” exercises…

or “mix ‘em up.”

I distinctly remember shuffling actual paper flash cards…

when I was in school.

After I walked there in five feet of snow, of course!

#2…

Is the group of apps…

that are continually being added to…

in that well loved section of classics…

by none other than Dr. Seuss!

As you can see…

you have options here as well.

You can read…

be read to…

or hit auto play!

There are several to choose from in this genre, folks!

There’s this beloved holiday classic…

as well as this lesser-known work…


entitled “Gertrude McFuzz.”

Sons #1 and #2 are very well versed in this beauty.

It is about a bird with very little to offer in the way of plumage…

that compares herself to more decorated species…

and the lessons learned.

Son #2 used to state quite often…

during CORE and Love of Learning…

that he could be a Gertrude McFuzz…

but instead…

he would choose to be a “Lolla-Lee-Lou!”

This story became a part of our family culture…

that was revisited today.

Son #2 was stunned…

when I showed him the app…

and informed him that I would indeed…

be purchasing it…

for Sons #4 and #5.

He was speechless…

because there it was…

in his beloved iTunes store.

I think he may be calling Steve Jobs today…

to tell him how very clever his mom/mentor really is.

Or not.

Now, if you’ll excuse me…

I think that I will go and practice my “12s!”…

I don’t know about you…

but mine can always use work!

What social media do you use or need to use…

to perhaps begin modeling relevance and usefulness?
TeriSig



Reading: Fast or Slow? You be the Judge!

July 30th, 2010

I promised to announce another give away today on TommyMom

and I’m not gonna lie.

I would really, really, really like to pretend…

that I never offered to be generous…

and keep it for myself!

I’m deep like that from time to time.

Today’s gift is offered by Christy Gandara of One Creative Bug.

Christy is also a veteran reader here on TommyMom

but that isn’t why I love, love, love her.

She is one of the most generous…

joy-filled…

sincere…

individuals you will ever meet.

And…

she wrote this post for us…

so that the mystery…

of why Mother Theresa is not yet considered a saint…

could be cleared up once and for all!

I know that I personally slept better that night…

armed with her vital knowledge.

Christy has given us several goodies…

but what I’m giving away next Friday…

is a wall vinyl that says…

“That noise you hear is the sound of freedom.”

I love it!

Several people…

have brought to the conversation table…

that they are, in fact…

slow readers.

For them…

as well as others…

this appears to pose a challenge in Leadership Education.

Since one of our Keys…

is “Classics, not Textbooks”…

one would assume that reading is paramount!

I know that while I am a fast reader…

my brother, Tim…

makes Evelyn Wood look like a slouch!

I have witnessed him reading…

at a rate that has made me sweat…

and wondered…

how in the HECK..

he is retaining anything!

He does.

So do many others that walk amongst us.

There is a great read entitled…

“How to Read a Book”…

by Mortimer Adler.

It gives lots of food for thought!

I highly recommend it.

It is also full of suggestions and techniques…

that help you to improve your ability to read…

process…

comprehend.

However…

earlier this week…

I read this article

and was fascinated.

I value your opinions.

Hint: for those of you that perhaps don’t realize it…

if you click on the words “this article”…

you will be taken to it!

Just keepin’ it real…

and accessible.

After you read the article…

please leave your thoughts.

I have many…

but don’t wish to prejudice the audience!

Each comment left on TommyMom

between now and next Thursday…

regarding any and all posts and topics…

will be counted as an entry.

All prizes are chosen through random.org.

I look forward to hearing from you!
TeriSig


Random Thoughts

July 28th, 2010

And the winner is…

Heather Remund!

Congratulations, Heather! You are the winner of the 50th anniversary copy…

of “Gift from the Sea” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh!

E-mail me your address to claim your prize!

And watch Friday’s post for our next giveaway.

What can I say?…

I’m on a Summer roll!

So many of you have shared kind thoughts this past week here on TommyMom.

I appreciate them…

and am humbled that you perceive me as an example and inspiration.

Honestly…

I struggle with many of the same things that each of you do.

Shoot…

we’re all in this boat together.

One thing that is a tremendous help…

is knowing who you are…

and “what you’re made of.”

It makes all the difference in the world…

when negative naysayers…

as well as those that are well-meaning…

begin to criticize…

scrutinize…

and analyze…

what you’re doing.

In the throes of any or all of the above…

it is often difficult to find one’s self…

and to think clearly.

Perhaps you haven’t taken the time…

to introspectively ask these questions in awhile.

Maybe you should.

You change…

and you grow.

You progress to a different level…

in your Leadership Education journey…

over time.

Your children do the same.

Perhaps what worked yesterday…

simply isn’t cutting it now.

Something that would’ve terrified…

even a couple of years ago…

is now eagerly embraced.

There’s no doubt about it…

as we change…

and grow…

we see things differently.

With that in mind…

let me remind you…

and share with you…

some up and coming opportunities.

The great thing about organic TJEd…

is that no matter when…

or how often…

you choose to revisit the Phases and the Keys…

you will be the beneficiary.

Perhaps on a level…

that previously…

you weren’t even aware existed!

Temecula, California…

will be home to a Face to Face With Greatness #2…

September 10 and 11, 2010.

It is entitled…

“Thomas Jefferson Education: Mentoring the Classics.”

The question often arises…

as to whether or not you may participate in a #2…

without a #1.

The answer is “yes.”

If you need further information regarding this opportunity…

please contact Erika Lundquist at evlundquist@gmail.com.

The early bird price is $140/person and $270/couple…

until August 9th.

Perhaps you have taken the Face to Face series before.

But then…

you were in a different place.

Visiting…

revisiting…

and building…

where the Phases, Keys, and Community are concerned…

is a huge piece of that whole concept of knowing who you are.

Trust me…

it helps to clarify so very much…

when the waters get murky…

the sky gets cloudy…

the well-meaning objections and inquiries…

begin to fly.

Knowledge that can be easily referenced…

is a significant source of strength.

We are building quite a strong virtual community here…

and I, for one…

couldn’t be happier!

Can you tell that I’m ever-so-slightly…

social?

It’s part of why I’m so excited to announce…

that come October…

I’ll be “taking it on the road!”

Along with Son #2.

We’ve been invited to Arkansas and Missouri!

To bond…

with the great people in these states.

Oh…

and to discuss TJEd principles in a one day seminar…

that we will do as many times as the audience will bear!

If you have friends…

family…

and yes, even foe…

in these parts…

send them over!

So far…

in my initial “dealings”…

via the phone lines…

these great people couldn’t be friendlier!

They have a lot on the ball…

where TJEd…

and community are concerned.

I can’t wait to learn from them!

Contact Debbie Hardesty…

at dhardesty@windstream.net…

for further information and details.

In the meantime…

know that I…

along with many of you…

am taking some serious inventory…

evaluating current knowledge…

analyzing weaknesses and present positions…

so that I can go forth with even greater strength.

May you do the same!
TeriSig






Pioneer Day

July 26th, 2010

Chapter Nine in “A Thomas Jefferson Education” lists Harvard, Princeton and Wythe skills.

In it, Dr. DeMille points out, that while both the Harvard and Princeton skills will give you the ability to earn good grades in school and success in a career; they do very little to win happiness.

He then provides a list of items that faculty and students at George Wythe came up with that should not only be considered; but also included as part of your education so that you will be prepared for the future, and ultimately success.

Two things in the Wythe list are the focus of today’s post.

They are…

The ability to establish, maintain and improve lasting relationships…

and…

The ability to keep one’s life in proper balance.

I highly recommend revisiting this chapter, if you haven’t read it in awhile.


This past week…

was such a whirlwind of activity and emotion…

that I was left trying to figure out…

not only what I’ve actually done…

but what I’ve celebrated and accomplished!

This post begins a year ago…

when Symbria Patterson heard Sons #1-#3…

play at another event…


we traveled to Cedar City…

to celebrate.

Symbria asked them then and there…

to return this past Saturday, July 24th

to participate in the Pioneer Day event…

that she was in charge of …

where arranging any and all activities and food were concerned.


It was a big job.


Basically…

it is a celebration surrounding the founders of the Mormon faith…

settling in Utah and declaring that this is where they would stay.


Pretty humorous for a lot of folks involved…

because the Helms don’t share the same faith.

In fact…

We were quite possibly…

some of the only people attending and participating in this event…

that aren’t Latter Day Saints!


But you see…

so much of true statesmanship revolves around the fact…

that you know your faith…

your convictions and beliefs…

and you

then seek to understand and know others.


I love so many people in Cedar City.

Many of them…

and the relationships we’ve built and celebrated…

have served in valuable ways…

to enhance my own understanding…

of Leadership Education…

and my experiences within the community.

Of course…

our boys readily committed.


Lynn and Symbria Patterson…

along with their daughter Sara…

not only always provide people…

with incredible hospitality…

their friendship is to be cherished.

Oh, the things that you experience…

when working alongside them!


Let’s just say….

much of the time…

the events can be likened to hair on fire…

mach speed…

surreal situations…

that always ultimately work out…

but can leave you sweating  profusely…

in the interim.

It always promises to be not only interesting…

but enriching…

challenging…

and a lot of fun as well!


The balance piece alone…

Is precious to us.

As very urban…

often insanely busy…

Southern Californians…

The change invites us…

to take a deep breath…

Experience country life…

and small town living.


It allows you to wake up…

to the persistent yet cheerful greeting of roosters..

to participate in the local home town parade…

to participate in an agrarian life first hand.

It’s a community that’s tight knit…

Proud…

Hard working.


A reminder of all that this great nation was founded on…

and needs to continue to nurture and celebrate…

in order to maintain freedom.

No….

We don’t just choose…

to build lasting relationships…

in our Leadership Education community…

on the local level.


Why….

even here on TommyMom…

this ever growing community…

not only celebrates several states…

but now two countries as well!

Can it be exhausting…

as well as somewhat daunting…

to faithfully build?


Absolutely!

However…

the personal…

as well as the collective rewards…

of relationships and balance gained…

bring growth…

diversity and perspective…

absolutely necessary to the development of you.

We are traveling home happy and rejuvenated…

feeling a measure of success…

regarding what we contributed to this event…

as well as pondering what we learned from others.

How about you?

How are your community building efforts…

and adventures coming along?
TeriSig

Don’t forget….Wednesday is the giveaway of “Gift from the Sea” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh!

What about Curriculum?

July 23rd, 2010


Noah Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines curriculum as the derivative of the word to be :

curricle, n. ( L. curriculum, from curro, to run.) 3. A course.

Perhaps it is just “that time of the year”…

or merely coincidence…

but I have been asked about “curriculum”…

no less that 3 times in the last 4 days!

TJEd isn’t a curriculum…

nor does it have one!

I phoned “Obi-Wan”…

(for those of you that aren’t familiar with the actual individual I would be referring to…

it is none other than Dr. Shanon Brooks)…

and below is his response.

I hope and pray that you will print it off…

read it thoroughly…

ponder it…

file it…

and read it again…

at least 20 more times.

Dr. Brooks is up to his eyeballs…

in noteworthy pursuits at this particular season…

yet loves the TJEd community enough…

to literally stop EVERYTHING yesterday…

in order to pen this article.

I implore you to respect that effort…

and value what you are doing enough…

to give his article…

your undivided attention.

Yes, it is lengthy.

Yes, it is thought provoking.

Yes, it is more than worth your time…

whatever your station in life.

If you love your freedom…

and value the thought process…

that it be maintained at all costs…

read on.

And when you do…

be thankful for statesmen like Dr. Brooks…

that are willing to lay themselves down…

so that others may “know!”
TeriSig



Dr. Shanon Brooks and his wife Julia have spent the past 20 years practicing the principles of TJEd with their 6 children (ages 9 to 20, 2 boys (the youngest boy suffers from Asperger Syndrome) and 4 girls) and teaching the concepts of TJEd all across the United States and Canada via Face to Face with Greatness Seminars (over 350 seminars since 1999). Dr. Brooks was mentored under Dr. Oliver and Rachel DeMille since 1992 learning and applying the TJEd in both family education and higher education arenas.  Many people consider him an authority on TJEd specifically and education in general.

“The trick to TJEd, (and we cover this in every seminar), is three basic concepts:

1. Unconditional Love Relationships

2. Being Inspired Personally (inspiration rubs off, it is not taught or even simulated.  It can only impact others indirectly)

3. Support the Kids (whatever they get inspired to do, we must be there for them)

I am aware of the current concerns that some are posing in regards to the use of curriculum.  A quick search will show that curriculum was not even a part of the American family education (k-12) mindset until 1910.  It is rooted in the European approach to education introduced by Horace Mann in the late 1850’s and furthered by the likes of John Dewey and others in the 2oth century. Let me repeat this, curriculum for higher education, yes from the beginning, but not for what we call K-12.

Below is a bit of research I did regarding education in America for the period of 1630’s to the mid 1800’s:

Education in America

The preeminent role that religion played on the stage of early American

education is fascinating, and worth exploring.  The primary purpose of education in America as early as the beginning of the Seventeenth Century was to develop literacy so children and adults alike could read the Bible. Historian Mary-Elaine Swanson makes this point in her book The Education of James Madison:

“What gave education its impetus in Colonial America?  The answer lies in the people’s religious faith.  From the earliest times in the colonies, the primary motive for learning was so that children could read the Bible for themselves and be guided by its lessons in all the concerns of their lives.”[1]

“All historians agree that a most singular and important feature of the settlers of

America was their overpowering sense of mission — a conviction that they were taking part in the unfolding of a manifest destiny of divine design which would shower its blessings on all mankind. As historian John Fiske writes:

‘They believed that they were doing a wonderful thing. They felt themselves to be instruments in accomplishing a kind of “manifest destiny”. Their exodus [from Europe] was that of a chosen people who were at length to lay the everlasting foundations of God’s kingdom upon earth…. This steadfast faith in an unseen ruler and guide was to them a pillar of cloud by day and of fire by night. It was of great moral value. It gave them clearness of purpose and concentration of strength, and contributed towards making them, like the children of Israel, a people of indestructible vitality and aggressive energy.’”[2]

This not only meant that the foundation of education in America was the Bible and what it taught, but it also meant that every person had a duty to be literate, or in other words, each person had a responsibility to learn how to read and write well enough to understand the Bible (the code for Christian living), the laws of the land and play their part in building God’s Kingdom.  Thus, America became the seedbed for “Manifest Destiny”[3] education.

Another reason that Colonial America put such emphasis on reading the Bible was that “this was one of the great goals of the Reformation begun by Martin Luther, and it continued to be the goal of parents and pedagogues in Colonial America.  In addition to the importance of the Bible’s theological substance in colonial education, there was also its quality as a literary work. Written during the flowering of the English language that also produced the works of William Shakespeare, the King James Version’s beauty and variety of expression formed a high standard for literary composition.”[4]

The Enlightenment spawned by the Reformation was the catalyst of many of the ills of the Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries.  However, it also created a desire for people to know God for themselves, and to worship Him as they saw fit. This “new” way of thinking produced men like Rousseau and Voltaire, whose writings led to disillusion and the fall of nations.  It also produced John Locke and Charles de Montesquieu, who with writings like Two Treaties on Government and The Spirit of Laws applied the teachings of the Bible to the government of free people with unalienable rights and reliance on Natural Law. This hearkens back to the Anglo-Saxon roots of England and Europe, where all men were equal and expected to play their part in the governing of the whole.

As the State and Church evolved in Europe they seemed inseparably connected, each dominating the other in their own way.

In America, however, that same religious zeal was free from State control,

resulting in an “American” approach to religion, education and politics that opened the door for unprecedented liberty.  Much of this was due to the influence of the teachings of Calvin. “The fanatic for Calvinism was a fanatic for liberty, for in the moral warfare for freedom, his creed was a part of his army, and his most faithful ally in the battle.  And Groen van Prinsterer has thus expressed it: ‘In Calvinism lies the origin and guarantee of our constitutional liberties.’ That Calvinism has led public law into new paths, first in Western Europe, then in two Continents, and today more and more among all civilized nations, is admitted by all scientific students, if not yet fully by public opinion.”[5] The proof of this liberty laden influence is demonstrated in the fact that three of the most prominent of the early American Universities; namely; Harvard, Yale and the College of New Jersey[6] (alma maters of many of the influential Founders) were heavily Calvinistic in their curriculum.

For the first time since the invention of the printing press, the opportunity was available for people to be free from the greatest bondage that ever plagued mankind, the bondage of ignorance.  Not since before the Dark Ages had a people been in a position where literacy was not only available, but expected.

In addition to the advantages that religious principles seemed to bring to the American education system, another source of the high quality of American education may be the fact that by 1647 one-hundred-thirty graduates of Oxford, Cambridge and Dublin Universities had already immigrated to America.[7]

Education was a strongly felt priority by Colonial American parents, in fact, by 1700 over one-hundred-thirty editions of spelling books and three-hundred-thirty-two different primary readers were in print in response to the call for aid in home schooling and tutoring.[8] These were supplements, not packaged curriculum.

To accommodate this “Manifest Destiny” approach to education, thousands of small private schools developed to meet the challenge. “The private system of education in which our forefathers were educated included home, church, voluntary associations, …circulating libraries, apprenticeships, and self-study.”[9]

The libraries of stuffy New England schools as well as of spacious plantation homes of the South were full of reading materials that stressed duty to God, family and country.  With titles like The Whole Duty of Man by Richard Allestries (1678), The Practice of Piety by Lewis Bayle (1612), Of Domestic Duties by William Gouge (1622), The Godly Forme of Household Government by Robert Cleaver (1598), The Religious Education of Children by Issac Watts (1753) and The Dignity of Human Nature by James Burgh (1754), many were influenced to seek good.

William Holmes McGuffey began printing his famous McGuffey Readers (also supplements, not packaged curriculum.  Parents still assumed the role of deciding what their children needed and did not trust it to others.  Another lost truth about American education—it was a primary role of the fathers, not the mothers) as an aid to home schooling in 1836. By 1920 there were over one-hundred-twenty million copies in print.  In an 1880 reprint, it is clear to see the path that he and the majority of Americans thought that education ought to pursue. The following selections show how McGuffey helped to ensure that the next generation of Americans would carry on the American tradition of service and responsibility:

The Needle – a short poem by Samuel Woodworth exemplifying the virtues of sewing versus living the high life.

House Cleaning – this funny short story by Francis Hopkinson explains in

humorous detail the reformation of a household during spring cleaning, it also teaches the virtues of cleanliness and responsibility.

Schemes of Life often Illusory – written by Samuel Johnson, this short story teaches to stay focused on what is important.

Tact and Talent – Thomas Grey’s short analysis of the differences between tact and talent.

On Happiness of Temper – a wonderful short essay on the true source of happiness.

Other titles include:

The Character of Columbus            How Men Reason

Observance of the Sabbath                        The Character of George Washington

The English Character                        Origin of Property

The Folly of Intoxication                        Labor

Studies                                                Franklin’s Entry Into Philadelphia

Inventions and Discoveries            Immorality of the Soul

Speech on the Trial of a Murderer            A Definite Aim in Reading

Throughout the first cycle of American education from 1607 to 1887, there was a strong emphasis on the “basics” of education including:

Reading – the use of phonics and memorization as the primary methods of learning to read.

Writing – learning Script (cursive) from the first grade on with lots of practice in writing skills, grammar and spelling.

Arithmetic – particularly the skills needed in bookkeeping and business.

Oral and written communication – constant stress on vocabulary and spelling, making use of spelling bees, essay contests, etc.

Literature – both classical and contemporary, particularly that which uplifts and builds.

Music – primary focus was character building through the practice and persistence required to learn and play an instrument or sing.

Art – painting, drawing, sculpting, etc.

Science – the study of plants, animals, astronomy, etc.

History – particularly American history and its Constitutional form of government.

Geography – the geopolitical and physical layout of the world.

Personal Hygiene – both physical and mental.

Dr. Skousen describes the elements that John Adams included in the education of his son John Quincy Adams:

“By the time his son John Quincy Adams was eighteen, the youth had become fairly proficient in Latin, French and Greek. He had also studied English and French literature, many of the Greek classics, Roman, English and Greek history, the theorems of Euclid, plane trigonometry, algebra, decimal fractions, geometrical proportions, and conic sections. However John Adams said his son was still a little weak in calculus.”[10]

It could easily be said, as we cite the education of these men, that “of course they had good educations, they are Founding Fathers”.  We need to keep in mind that at the time of their educational process neither their parents nor themselves had any idea what the future held; this was simply the educational pattern of the time.  The early education of James Madison is similar to that of John Quincy Adams. He was taught by his grandmother at home until he was twelve. Being sickly, he spent a good deal of time bed-ridden or indoors and taking advantage of his father’s eighty-five book library. This seems to have once again led to a habit of intense reading and solitary study.  At the age of twelve, his father enrolled him into a boarding school seventy miles from home.  Here he began his studies in preparation for college. The curriculum consisted of Latin, Greek, French, algebra, geometry, geography, literature, astronomy and the

writings of Locke, Fontenelle, Plato and Euclid.[11] Madison kept detailed notebooks on his studies, in fact, keeping notebooks was a very important part of early American education which carried on into adult life. Speaking to his son, John Adams once explained:

“One contracts a Fondness for writing by Use. We learn to write readily and what is more important, we think, and improve our Judgements, by committing our thoughts to paper.”[12]

At sixteen, Madison’s father had him return home and spend the next two years under the tutelage of Rev. Thomas Martin. At nineteen, it was determined that he was ready for college. He had mastered English and Greek and was well aquainted with Latin and French. He also had a substantial background in literature, the classics, political economy, mathematics, astronomy, and philosophy not to mention excellent reading and writing skills.

Thomas Jefferson, like Madison and Adams, received a traditional Colonial education. Beginning at the age of five, Jefferson was less than eager to discipline himself to the task. During his first year of schooling, he would sneak out of the classroom, kneel behind the building and recite the Lord’s Prayer, “…hoping thereby to hasten the hour of dismissal.”[13]

As he grew, however, so did his desire to learn. He was an inquisitive youth, according to one account:

“When he discovered a neighbor or stranger doing something he did not understand, he asked questions and observed the proceeding until his curiosity was fully gratified, and then usually made notes of his observations in a memorandum book.  His inquisitiveness was proverbial in the neighborhood, and [one ] woman …remarked that she ‘never knew anyone to ask so many questions as Thomas Jefferson.’”[14]

By the age of nine he could already read Latin, Greek and French and soon added Spanish, Italian and Anglo-Saxon.[15]

At fourteen Jefferson’s father died, leaving the teenage Jefferson the sole owner of large and wealthy land holdings and away at boarding school.  He later stated that:

“When I recollect that at fourteen years of age the whole care and direction of myself was thrown on myself entirely, without relation or friend qualified to advise or guide me, and recollect the various sorts of bad company with which I associated from time to time, I am astonished I did not turn off with some of them and become as worthless to society as they were.”[16]

He attributed his ability to make right choices during those troubling times to his

classical education, the loving words of council left by his father and high character of some of the people he met at the College of William and Mary where he enrolled as an advanced student at the age of seventeen.  He wrote:

“I had the good fortune to become aquatinted very early with some characters of very high standing, and to feel the incessant wish that I could ever become what they were.  Under temptations and difficulties, I would ask myself, what would Dr. Small, Mr. Wythe [or] Payton Randolph do in this situation?  What course in it will ensure me their approbation? I am certain that this mode of deciding on my conduct tended more to correctness than any reasoning powers I possessed.”[17]

The need to teach young and old alike what their duty was as citizens was voiced by many American educational leaders. John Witherspoon, the President of Princeton University states in a collect in his writings, Works of John Witherspoon, that:

“He is the best friend to American Liberty who is most sincere and active in promoting true and undefiled religion, and who sets himself with the greatest firmness to bear down on profanity and immorality of every kind.  Whoever is an avowed enemy to God, I scruple not to call him an enemy to his country.”

The ideology prevalent in America from the early Seventeenth Century to the beginning of the Twentieth Century, was one firmly grounded in literacy, scholarship[18] (prerequisite to knowing God and the laws of the land) and serving one’s fellowman.

This ideology rationalized that the best way to understand man was to understand God, and that living the way that He declared would lead to the greatest success and happiness. In the mind of the early American, it was a simple matter of being as good as you could and serving God and your neighbor.


[1] ( Swanson, The Education of James Madison, pp. 5)

[2] ( Skousen, The Five Thousand Year Leap, pp. 305-6)

[3] Contrary to current usage, Manifest Destiny during the Colonial period referred to the building of a society that would usher in the Second Coming of Jesus Christ, as foretold in the Old Testament.

[4] ( Swanson, The Education of James Madison, pp. 5)

[5] ( Kuyper, Lectures on Calvinism, lect. 3 pp. 78)

[6] Later known as Princeton University

[7] ( Morison, The Oxford History of the American People, pp. 71)

[8] ( Morison, The Intellectual Life of New England, pp. 71-71)

[9] (Peterson, Freeman, pp. 553)

[10] ( Ibid. pp. 4)

[11] ( Swanson, The Education of James Madison, pp. 24)

[12] ( Ibid. pp. 25)

[13] (Allison, The Real Thomas Jefferson, pp. 14)

[14] ( Ibid. )

[15] (Ibid. pp. 15)

[16] (Ibid.)

[17] (Ibid. pp. 17)

[18] The sole purpose of literacy is to provide a means to scholarship, which is much deeper and wider than literacy. A scholar is someone who has been exposed to and can articulate the great thoughts, philosophies, and works of God and mankind.  A scholar is someone who has studied other languages and cultures, a person who has read and experienced the classical literary works of the world, architecture, science, philosophy, history, mathematics, etiquette and social graces.  To develop scholarship, a change must occur in the thinking of the individual; that change will only occur when the person is exposed to information that is new to him. To develop scholarship is to advocate free thinking, promote keen judgement and advance sound reasoning.  True scholarship relies more on past wisdom and avoidance of past folly than on the supposed sagacity and short sightedness of the present.  The true steward of scholarship values and maintains a strong devotion to the best learning of our Fathers, and to the best of our Fathers themselves.

Overwhelm

July 21st, 2010

“Everybody today seems to be in such a terrible rush, anxious for greater development and greater riches, so that children have very little time for their parents.  And parents have very little time for their children and for each other.  So the breakdown of peace in the world begins at home.” ~ Mother Theresa

When I started this blog, I pledged right up front to myself…

well, come to think of it…

to you as well…

that I wouldn’t be “one of those blogs.”

You know…

the kind where everything is pristine…

nearing perfection…

absolutely “in- order-at- all- times?”

Basically…

the kind of image that leaves you wondering…

where you were when all of the “I’ve-got-it-together…

and-am-nearly-perfect” skill sets were passed out!

With that in mind…

I would like to state that today has been a hardship…

in so many ways.

In others it has been a beautiful opportunity.

Unfortunately…

far too early this morning…

we received a most unpleasant phone call…

with devastating…

soul-searing news at the other end.

I was elected to phone someone else…

that others were concerned about…

to deliver this same news to them.

It’s one of those days..

that, come 9:00 a.m. …

you’re secretly wondering if a shower…

pajamas…

and bed for the rest of the 24 hour duration

would be in order.

I don’t have them often.

Thank you, Lord.

Also in this day…

we have had the joy of friends visiting…

quite unexpectedly…

on their way through town to a convention.

We haven’t seen these dear ones in nearly 3 years!

They are staying the night.

Many of you have heard me rave about Jan and Gary Bloom.

Jan is the author of “Who Should We Then Read?…

Volumes 1 and 2.

It has been a joy to dialogue about books…

books…

books…

and more books…

this evening over dinner.

Jan is honestly one of the most well-read individuals…

I personally know.

And hanging out in the Leadership Education community…

that’s saying a lot!

There was also very robust dialogue in our group this evening…

over this afternoon’s disclosure…

that Sons #1-#3 will be testifying in court tomorrow…

in regards to a car accident they were involved in…

last October.

Sometimes…

I am in a hugely inappropriate rush.

Sometimes…

I applaud greater development…

and can tend to worry in these economic times…

about “riches.”

But today…

I am reminded that I, indeed, possess them.

On the greatest levels.

I have an incredible husband…

equally amazing sons…

family and friends that love me…

and a home that honestly does strive to be at peace…

with all men…

as much as is humanly possible.

So…

I am going to haul my tired…

emotionally spent…

exhausted…

self…

to bed.

Because tomorrow is a new day.

Filled with fresh seconds…

minutes…

hours…

to cherish relationships…

in the form of family…

friends…

and even acquaintances that can be touched for the better.

And it all starts right here…

at home.

Isn’t that what this blog is really about?
TeriSig

p.s.  You thought I forgot, didn’t you?!  I’m gone…but not quite that far!

Monday’s post certainly resonated with many of you.  With that in mind…

we are going to continue to visit and dialogue about the things that pull us…

vie for attention…

create distraction and conflict at times.

Curriculum.  Household responsibilities. Peers.

To name a few.

Stay tuned…and be ready to respond!

Next Wednesday…

I will give away a 50th Anniversary copy of “Gift from the Sea!”

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