“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”
~Chuck Swindoll
Amidst celebratory moments…
amongst those exceptionally close…
I’ve often observed…
an intense meltdown.
Mind you…
I’m not referring to the kind…
that is invited…
through situational drama…
but rather…
is birthed in pressure…
brought about…
by internal and external circumstances…
and life events…
that often attach themselves…
to thoughts and ideas…
which can shoot up rapidly…
into “what ifs”…
growing larger-than-life by the moment.
And so…
often at the most inconvenient of times…
(perhaps even really late at night)…
an individual experiencing…
feelings and emotions…
such as those above…
stumbles their way…
into your presence…
with tears flowing freely.
As with success…
a wise individual…
(or at least one wishing to be)…
attempts to view these moments…
in light of the bigger picture.
Convenience is rarely…
synonymous with leadership…
(or parenting.)
And perception…
must be recognized…
analyzed…
criticized…
and often…
ostracized.
Why?
Because what may appear…
to be apparent now…
really isn’t so!
Good leadership…
seeks the pulse…
engages the heart…
examines the core.
Whether it is in…
a matter…
a phase…
or an individual.
Regardless of which it is…
they deserve consideration…
respect…
proper direction…
and cultivation.
Why?
Because effective leadership…
always includes relationship…
whether good or bad.
In the apparent darkness…
of events…
circumstances…
and personal growth…
I want to infuse life.
Abundantly…
consistently…
and faithfully.
Because in the end…
circumstances come…
perhaps stay for awhile…
and then go.
Attitudes?
They make or break.
Always.
And good ones…
know how to deal with…
and expel darkness effectively.
Every time.
Knowing all the while…
that tomorrow…
is another chance…
to get it right.
























































































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