Interesting Perspective….Your Thoughts?

I said that I would announce the winner of the wall vinyl that was generously donated by Christy Gandara today.  I love this gift!  It says, ” That noise you hear is the sound of Freedom.”

Our winner was chosen by Random.org and was Gale de la Rosa!  Congratulations, Gale!  If, when you put this lovely saying up, it’s missing one morning off of your wall…it was me!  Send me an e-mail with your address in it, and I’ll get this off to you!

This article is long, but worth the read.  And be sure to comment…

as I will be announcing another giveaway on Monday!

Monday is the early bird deadline for registration for the Sept. 10-11 Face to Face in Temecula.

Contact evlundquist@gmail.com to register. TeriSig


The Best High School Valedictorian Speech Written by Erica Goldson
The 2010 Graduating Class of Coxsackie-Athens High School.

Comment: The following speech was delivered by top of the class student Erica Goldson during the graduation ceremony at Coxsackie-Athens High School on June 25, 2010
Here I Stand
There is a story of a young, but earnest Zen student who approached his teacher, and asked the Master, “If I work very hard and diligently, how long will it take for me to find Zen? The Master thought about this, then replied, “Ten years . .” ?The student then said, “But what if I work very, very hard and really apply myself to learn fast — How long then?” Replied the Master, “Well, twenty years.” “But, if I really, really work at it, how long then?” asked the student. “Thirty years,” replied the Master. “But, I do not understand,” said the disappointed student. “At each time that I say I will work harder, you say it will take me longer. Why do you say that?” ?Replied the Master, “When you have one eye on the goal, you only have one eye on the path.”
This is the dilemma I’ve faced within the American education system. We are so focused on a goal, whether it be passing a test, or graduating as first in the class. However, in this way, we do not really learn. We do whatever it takes to achieve our original objective.
Some of you may be thinking, “Well, if you pass a test, or become valedictorian, didn’t you learn something? Well, yes, you learned something, but not all that you could have. Perhaps, you only learned how to memorize names, places, and dates to later on forget in order to clear your mind for the next test. School is not all that it can be. Right now, it is a place for most people to determine that their goal is to get out as soon as possible.
I am now accomplishing that goal. I am graduating. I should look at this as a positive experience, especially being at the top of my class. However, in retrospect, I cannot say that I am any more intelligent than my peers. I can attest that I am only the best at doing what I am told and working the system. Yet, here I stand, and I am supposed to be proud that I have completed this period of indoctrination. I will leave in the fall to go on to the next phase expected of me, in order to receive a paper document that certifies that I am capable of work. But I contest that I am a human being, a thinker, an adventurer – not a worker. A worker is someone who is trapped within repetition – a slave of the system set up before him. But now, I have successfully shown that I was the best slave. I did what I was told to the extreme. While others sat in class and doodled to later become great artists, I sat in class to take notes and become a great test-taker. While others would come to class without their homework done because they were reading about an interest of theirs, I never missed an assignment. While others were creating music and writing lyrics, I decided to do extra credit, even though I never needed it. So, I wonder, why did I even want this position? Sure, I earned it, but what will come of it? When I leave educational institutionalism, will I be successful or forever lost? I have no clue about what I want to do with my life; I have no interests because I saw every subject of study as work, and I excelled at every subject just for the purpose of excelling, not learning. And quite frankly, now I’m scared.
John Taylor Gatto, a retired school teacher and activist critical of compulsory schooling, asserts, “We could encourage the best qualities of youthfulness – curiosity, adventure, resilience, the capacity for surprising insight simply by being more flexible about time, texts, and tests, by introducing kids into truly competent adults, and by giving each student what autonomy he or she needs in order to take a risk every now and then. But we don’t do that.” Between these cinderblock walls, we are all expected to be the same. We are trained to ace every standardized test, and those who deviate and see light through a different lens are worthless to the scheme of public education, and therefore viewed with contempt.
H. L. Mencken wrote in The American Mercury for April 1924 that the aim of public education is not “to fill the young of the species with knowledge and awaken their intelligence. … Nothing could be further from the truth. The aim … is simply to reduce as many individuals as possible to the same safe level, to breed and train a standardized citizenry, to put down dissent and originality. That is its aim in the United States.”
Comment: The full passage reads: “The aim of public education is not to spread enlightenment at all; it is simply to reduce as many individuals as possible to the same safe level, to breed and train a standardized citizenry, to down dissent and originality. That is its aim in the United States, whatever pretensions of politicians, pedagogues other such mountebanks, and that is its aim everywhere else.”
To illustrate this idea, doesn’t it perturb you to learn about the idea of “critical thinking.” Is there really such a thing as “uncritically thinking?” To think is to process information in order to form an opinion. But if we are not critical when processing this information, are we really thinking? Or are we mindlessly accepting other opinions as truth?
This was happening to me, and if it wasn’t for the rare occurrence of an avant-garde tenth grade English teacher, Donna Bryan, who allowed me to open my mind and ask questions before accepting textbook doctrine, I would have been doomed. I am now enlightened, but my mind still feels disabled. I must retrain myself and constantly remember how insane this ostensibly sane place really is.
And now here I am in a world guided by fear, a world suppressing the uniqueness that lies inside each of us, a world where we can either acquiesce to the inhuman nonsense of corporatism and materialism or insist on change. We are not enlivened by an educational system that clandestinely sets us up for jobs that could be automated, for work that need not be done, for enslavement without fervency for meaningful achievement. We have no choices in life when money is our motivational force. Our motivational force ought to be passion, but this is lost from the moment we step into a system that trains us, rather than inspires us.
We are more than robotic bookshelves, conditioned to blurt out facts we were taught in school. We are all very special, every human on this planet is so special, so aren’t we all deserving of something better, of using our minds for innovation, rather than memorization, for creativity, rather than futile activity, for rumination rather than stagnation? We are not here to get a degree, to then get a job, so we can consume industry-approved placation after placation. There is more, and more still.
The saddest part is that the majority of students don’t have the opportunity to reflect as I did. The majority of students are put through the same brainwashing techniques in order to create a complacent labor force working in the interests of large corporations and secretive government, and worst of all, they are completely unaware of it. I will never be able to turn back these 18 years. I can’t run away to another country with an education system meant to enlighten rather than condition. This part of my life is over, and I want to make sure that no other child will have his or her potential suppressed by powers meant to exploit and control. We are human beings. We are thinkers, dreamers, explorers, artists, writers, engineers. We are anything we want to be – but only if we have an educational system that supports us rather than holds us down. A tree can grow, but only if its roots are given a healthy foundation.
For those of you out there that must continue to sit in desks and yield to the authoritarian ideologies of instructors, do not be disheartened. You still have the opportunity to stand up, ask questions, be critical, andcreate your own perspective. Demand a setting that will provide you with intellectual capabilities that allow you to expand your mind instead of directing it. Demand that you be interested in class. Demand that the excuse, “You have to learn this for the test” is not good enough for you. Education is an excellent tool, if used properly, but focus more on learning rather than getting good grades.
For those of you that work within the system that I am condemning, I do not mean to insult; I intend to motivate. You have the power to change the incompetencies of this system. I know that you did not become a teacher or administrator to see your students bored. You cannot accept the authority of the governing bodies that tell you what to teach, how to teach it, and that you will be punished if you do not comply. Our potential is at stake.
For those of you that are now leaving this establishment, I say, do not forget what went on in these classrooms. Do not abandon those that come after you. We are the new future and we are not going to let tradition stand. We will break down the walls of corruption to let a garden of knowledge grow throughout America. Once educated properly, we will have the power to do anything, and best of all, we will only use that power for good, for we will be cultivated and wise. We will not accept anything at face value. We will ask questions, and we will demand truth.
So, here I stand. I am not standing here as valedictorian by myself. I was molded by my environment, by all of my peers who are sitting here watching me. I couldn’t have accomplished this without all of you. It was all of you who truly made me the person I am today. It was all of you who were my competition, yet my backbone. In that way, we are all valedictorians.
I am now supposed to say farewell to this institution, those who maintain it, and those who stand with me and behind me, but I hope this farewell is more of a “see you later” when we are all working together to rear a pedagogic movement. But first, let’s go get those pieces of paper that tell us that we’re smart enough to do so!

Much Ado about Clutter!

“Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing, is like shoveling the sidewalk before it stops snowing.” ~ Phyllis Diller, American comedienne and actress, born 1917.

If this post doesn’t prompt you to throw your two cents in…

as a mom first and educator second

I’m quite confident that no topic will.

How do you deal with the dynamic that comes from any one of the following…

living in a house with a possibly-larger-than-2.5-child-family…

being “together” 24/7, as opposed to those that are “gone from the family dynamic”…

at least 8 hours a day?

Inquiring minds really do want to know…

what your hints…

tips…

solutions…

are to this particular situation.

Because this is the ideal that we see on a regular basis…

and this is what many people feel as if they’re really battling!

Or worse yet…

really are.

I’m not here to promote one particular methodology or system…

but at the same time…

recognize that moms are brilliant!

What works for you…

may not for me…

but could very well be a lifeline for someone else!

Here are some things that I’ve learned over the years.

Most of society…

doesn’t live my life.

Simply meaning…

I am not “the norm”.

Sons #1-#5 find this to be slightly understated.

And as long as I have my children home 24/7…

regardless of how many of them there are…

I never will be “normal.”

This is something you simply must own.

Mom speak?…

Those “Scrubbing Bubbles” (TM) bathroom toilet gels…

that suggest on the side of the box…

that they “need replacing once a week”…

last 1.5 – 2 days max in a house full of home-educated boys…

where the toilet…

replaces one of those cascading…

perpetual waterfall relaxation fountains…

because of constant flushing!

Rejoice.

And plan accordingly when purchasing.

Perhaps also plan accordingly as well…

when the temptation arises to compare yourself to others.

Martha Stewart?…

has beautiful ideas…

lovely resources…

and expectations that most women need a pole vaulting background…

to rise to any measure of success in achieving!

She has a staff.

Very few of which are over the age of 30!

They work 24/7…

to make her look good!

Do you see children on her programs?!

Do you see Martha personally doing all of the things…

that she suggests you undertake?

Enough said.

Avoid placing yourself…

in social situations…

where the expectation level consistently runs this high.

They don’t compliment and encourage your life goals and choices.

You can do anything for 15 minutes.

And if that 15 minutes is focused, committed time…

it honestly does add up to quite a bit of accomplishment!

Adding an element of FUN to the often mundane…

does make tasks more palatable.

Everyone needs certain life skill sets to be able to live on their own.

Are you incorporating these skills into daily life…

as opportunities in which your kids will learn and grow?

How do you deal with the daily clutter?

Living 24/7 together?

These questions apply to every phase of Leadership Education…

and every walk of life!

At times they can “make or break” a dynamic learning environment…

and atmosphere that is conducive to inspiration.

So settle in…

get yourself a nice cold drink…

and let ‘er rip!

The “web lines” are open!

What works for you…

your family…

your life?

We’d love to know!

TeriSig






Happy Apps!

Three years ago for Mother’s Day…

I opened this.

I was stunned.

I nearly threw up.

And neither of these emotions was due to excitement…

of this I can assure you!

I am one of THE most technology challenged…

individuals walking…

sitting…

however you choose to look at it.

It’s almost mind boggling to those around me.

My kids frequently call my issue…

a “homeschooling moment.”

This is not meant as a compliment.

To make matters worse…

all 6 of the “men” in my life…

were looking on with a mix…

of joy and envy…

as I opened the package.

Yes, it’s true…

they had all decided…

that I should be the first iPhone owner…

in our family.

I seriously doubt…

that any of them have experienced…

a more paramount moment…

of insanity since.

With all of that being said…

My iPhone is indispensable.

I simply don’t know what I ever did without it.

It’s near-ability to vacuum and dust while whistling…

at least from my personal point of view…

is a never ceasing source of incredulous wonder on my part!

Perhaps I need to experience a more well-rounded life.

Or at least do something in “corporate America”…

for a reality check before I leave this earth.

I don’t know which side of this suggested equation…

would suffer more!

Since that fateful thoughtful Mother’s Day…

each of my three oldest sons…

and their father…

have entered the iPhone cult culture.

There are vast differences…

as to our level of allegiance…

to said cult culture.

For instance…

upgrade…

is something they do whenever a new model appears.

Me?

Why should I move “up”…

when I haven’t even fully utilized what I already own?

And apps?

Well…

at first…

I thought they were all saying “abs”…

and I couldn’t for the life of me…

figure out what was going on!

And since we all sync our phones…

on the same “port” or “dock”…

or whatever that dohickey…

thingamabob deal is…

I get everyone else’s “apps”…

that apparently…

they won’t make it through the day without!

For example…

there’s the “Bubblewrap App”.

Oh yes!…

when you’re “stressed”…

you simply begin to “pop” bubbles…

in the full screen of wrap!

Son #3 was quite proud…

to introduce me to this “seemingly necessary” life skill…

when we were running behind for an appointment!

Granted…

he felt better.

Especially…

since he managed to set a timer…

and watch me attempt to “beat the clock”!

Oliver and Rachel DeMille have stated…

more than once in recent months…

that social media…

will most definitely be a part…

of the Great Conversation for our children.

I am quite certain that this is true.

Imagine my thrill…

and yes, I am being serious now…

when I discovered a couple of “apps”…

that aid both young…

and not-so-young moms…

in using moments…

that “B. iP”…

(Before iPhone)

could’ve very easily been wasted.

I mean…

how many times are you “stuck”…

sitting…

waiting…

somewhere…

with literally nothing to do?

Oh yes indeed!…

that doctor’s “recheck”…

that should’ve been 10 minutes…

but ends up being one of those…

“he’s-had-an-emergency-and-we-know-you-understand…

one-hour-later” moments!

Or what about…

a “this-will-take-no-more-than-15-minutes…

once-we-have-the-part”…

at the mechanic moment?

And there you sit.

Because I love you…

and attempt to keep it real…

and somewhat cutting edge…

over here…

might I draw your attention to the following apps?

#1…

Flash Tables by frogameleon, ltd.

This app has great exercises!

You can set a timer…

or not…

depending on the proficiency of the child.

They choose the correct answer…

can do “all one number” exercises…

or “mix ‘em up.”

I distinctly remember shuffling actual paper flash cards…

when I was in school.

After I walked there in five feet of snow, of course!

#2…

Is the group of apps…

that are continually being added to…

in that well loved section of classics…

by none other than Dr. Seuss!

As you can see…

you have options here as well.

You can read…

be read to…

or hit auto play!

There are several to choose from in this genre, folks!

There’s this beloved holiday classic…

as well as this lesser-known work…


entitled “Gertrude McFuzz.”

Sons #1 and #2 are very well versed in this beauty.

It is about a bird with very little to offer in the way of plumage…

that compares herself to more decorated species…

and the lessons learned.

Son #2 used to state quite often…

during CORE and Love of Learning…

that he could be a Gertrude McFuzz…

but instead…

he would choose to be a “Lolla-Lee-Lou!”

This story became a part of our family culture…

that was revisited today.

Son #2 was stunned…

when I showed him the app…

and informed him that I would indeed…

be purchasing it…

for Sons #4 and #5.

He was speechless…

because there it was…

in his beloved iTunes store.

I think he may be calling Steve Jobs today…

to tell him how very clever his mom/mentor really is.

Or not.

Now, if you’ll excuse me…

I think that I will go and practice my “12s!”…

I don’t know about you…

but mine can always use work!

What social media do you use or need to use…

to perhaps begin modeling relevance and usefulness?
TeriSig



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