Retail venues are inundated with huge, swelling, and often demanding crowds.
Many individuals are in the throes for hours and hours on end.
I love a good bargain and the festive flow of the holidays as much as anyone else…
but I long for balance, as well as the ability to communicate and model it for my family.
There is deep meaning in traditions, the message of Christmas…
and the countless opportunities it lends…
to serving others.
Where and how does one do this?
When is it too much?
Not enough?
I invite input…
comments…
and ideas from all of you.
Please join in.
I read a tremendous quote this week…
regarding gift giving where children are concerned.
It went like this…
“Something they want, something they need…
something to wear, and something to read.”
Today, it is my pleasure to welcome yet again…
Luke Robertson.
Luke has both the wonderful website and Facebook page…
Professor Bookman’s.
He is also one of the librarians…
at The Archer School for Girls in Los Angeles, California…
where he and his lovely wife, Sarah make their home.
Luke is a stellar young man…
and a tremendous example of being both a lover of books…
as well as a balanced, practical, and insightful individual.
Please welcome him.
We are privileged to have him as a contributor.

Just recently, I was asked by a few students at school to help them create and moderate a book club which would meet once a month during their lunch break. The group consists of about fifteen ninth-grade girls, all of whom enjoy a good book, but not one of them has belonged to a book club before. I agreed to meet with the girls, just to clarify what a book club is and does, and also to let the girls know up front what would be expected of them.
So, for that first meeting, I started off by asking the girls what they knew about book clubs and what their expectations were for their own book club. I was absolutely shocked by their reaction- they were nervous, anxious, even a little troubled about what a book club exactly entails. Each one of the girls voiced a separate concern- “How much work do we need to prepare before we meet? I already have so much homework to do!” or “I’m not sure I have enough time to be in a book club; I have after-school sports and I’m already in two other clubs!” and, my personal favorite, “Is this going to be like English class? Because one English class is about all I can take right now…”
My response was this- “Ladies… do you enjoy reading? I know, I know, it ‘depends on the book,’ but have you ever been swept away by a good story? Or, would like to be? Let’s say you already have, did you tell anyone about it? Your friends? Your mom? Your sister? Did you talk about your favorite parts, and the characters you really felt for? Did you tell them why you enjoyed this particular story so much? Or what bothered you about the plot? Because that’s a book club! It’s just that easy, and that’s exactly what we’ll do- over a month’s time, we’ll each read something new and exciting, and then at the end of that month we’ll have lunch together and share our thoughts about it. That’s it! No homework, no notes, no pressure… it’s that easy.”
I never quite realized it before, but people definitely have a few preconceived notions about book clubs, and these presumptions can make people very wary about starting/joining a book club…
One of these notions is that book clubs are these intensely academic and intellectual gatherings where people wax poetic about themes and the author’s “true” intentions. Book clubs can be like that, sure, but they can also be as simple as sharing what you liked and disliked about the story. The core idea of book clubs is that a group of people are coming together to share. And that’s it. Simple.
Another idea that makes people hesitant about joining a book club is the amount of work they think goes into a book club. “I don’t have time for it,” I often hear. Generally, most book clubs meet once a month. This means you have an entire month to finish one book. I know there are a few thousand-paged tomes out there, but if you commit to reading for just fifteen minutes a day, you can certainly finish the average paperback in a matter of weeks.
Let’s not forget, book clubs are about deciding what you want to read as a group- you pick what makes the most sense for you all to read. If that means a quick read, pick a short & poignant book (The Great Gatsby, The Alchemist, Siddhartha, or even The Little Prince). You could discuss mysteries, a children’s books, non-fiction, even romance novels!
I guess my overall point is this- book clubs are such easy and enjoyable ways to enrich lives, especially for children or young adults. If you’ve been thinking about organizing one for your child, or for yourself, don’t even hesitate! Get going! And if you need any help, email me any time!
Thanks, everyone!
Luke

























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